Bliss and tears as wedding bells near

This time I'm getting married next week. We are getting married. We are a "we" that is. I am a woman. I'll be your wife. When we went on honeymoon abroad, we are not, I'd like to get your (our!) use the family name through customs. It would be great.
At this stage, five days after the wedding dresses, all restrictions are repealed and small, is just amazing. It feels like what actually happens, and is independent of bear, where and in what color shoes the bridesmaids, or if no market tuberous flower to happen on Friday. (This has spoiled the odd time the flowering period, for all that was fun to plan for those of us who like).
But at this point has always been difficult. We have tried to "marry, we are on the beach with a barbecue, and everyone can wear flip-flops, and we are, and it's great," our attention much more on marriage and marriage, and we started.

We were very faithful to the plan, but still, you're doing 'casual' day was more difficult than imagined. It meant making endless lists and plans and Annexes B and E-mails and appointments and subtleties, and the obligations and deadlines and seller terrible. Meant google for hours, days, maybe if we all go "Bridal Gown" and "Herbal Wedding Bouquet" and "marriage + Auckland City Beach." It has at various points, made me mourn with rage and tired of tears and sad tears.
More recently, the tears were happy - honestly mourn, I look at the drop of a hat (or a nice song) - but I feel like obligations and much less fun than painted. (For those commitments, "I mean" wedding plan. "The emotional side of what is beautiful). The ladies married, and about the to-be-married ladies, I'm sure of it. Or maybe you not have, and I'm married worst in the world.
Anyway, my advice - go in, Greer, my anti-girlfriend's wedding - that's all. Imagine that tells me is the song of sun protection.

    Do not read wedding magazines, which only make you feel inferior.
    Do not visit oncewed.com theknot.com or not, but believe me, try apracticalwedding.com.
    Coma.
    It has a lot of things every day that have nothing to do with marriage.
    Surround yourself with people who are beautiful and practical, and are non-judgment. If you want to make a speech, I ask for more than five days in advance. If you forget, and they say yes, because if not much, thank you, as you want, because you want it.

    Dream.
    Save your receipts. Take this quote for the dress she made an incredible 8600, but I feel like someone else.
    Respect your parents. But do not lose the "remember everyone is watching" in his time "should", or people that "this is the most important day of your life", or say, or "should represent your field who you are as a person on. "These people are usually trying to sell something.
    Accept certain inalienable truths: prices are high, the bridesmaid dresses are almost universally abhorrent, which will also be in a panic, and if it does, hug your friend and say, "That will be fine, right ? " until shown.
    Perhaps, it is possible that it will rain, maybe not, maybe you have a record of Smith & Caughey, maybe not, maybe you have an eccentric dance choreography first time all calls spent on Facebook, rather half the budget on the consequences of stationery. Whatever you do, do not congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself, either - the choices are half chance, so are all others.
Ok, so I totally ripped off the last line of the song.